Chapter 29
The character of truth
Reading: John 8:31-36; Matthew 5:33-37; Ephesians 4:25; 1 Kings 22:1-28; Acts 5:1-11; Proverbs 12:22.
Character cannot be built upon dishonesty. Truth matters. Jesus said:
And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.
But truth is more than avoiding obvious lies. Dishonesty can take many forms: exaggeration, half-truths, manipulation, misleading impressions, concealing information for personal advantage, telling people what they want to hear, pretending to be something we are not. Even silence can sometimes become dishonest when truth is deliberately concealed for selfish reasons. Paul gives the instruction plainly:
Therefore, putting away lying, “Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another.
Notice the reason: “for we are members of one another.” Truth is not only a private virtue. It is how a community holds together.
Integrity when it costs something
The real test of honesty is not when truth benefits us. It is when truth costs us. Suppose admitting the truth makes you look bad. Will you admit it? Suppose honesty costs you money. Will you tell the truth? Suppose telling the truth means losing an opportunity. Will you remain truthful? Suppose you could easily get away with something. Will you still do what is right? This is integrity, and integrity is one of the strongest foundations of character.
Micaiah is a striking example. King Ahab of Israel and King Jehoshaphat of Judah were about to go to war, and four hundred prophets had told them what they wanted to hear. The messenger sent to fetch Micaiah told him that all the other prophets had spoken favourably, and advised him to agree. Micaiah answered:
As the LORD lives, whatever the LORD says to me, that I will speak.
He told the king the truth, and Ahab had him put in prison on bread and water (1 Kings 22:26-27). The truth cost him his freedom. Truth-telling is not always rewarded, but it is always right.
The truth about ourselves
Truthfulness also concerns the way we present ourselves. Ananias and Sapphira sold a piece of land and brought part of the money to the apostles, but let it be understood that it was the whole amount. Nobody had required them to give anything. Peter told Ananias that the land had been his own to keep, and that the money had been his own to use: “You have not lied to men but to God” (Acts 5:4). Their sin was not the size of their gift. It was the image they wanted to project. It is a sobering account of the cost of wanting to appear more generous, more spiritual or more committed than we are.
A person’s word
A Christian’s word should mean something. Jesus said:
But let your “Yes” be “Yes,” and your “No,” “No.” For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.
A person’s character is reflected in whether others can trust his word. Do you keep promises? Do you arrive when you said you would? Do you pay what you owe? Do you admit mistakes? Do you tell the truth when it is inconvenient? Do you speak differently depending on who is listening? These things may appear small. They are not small. They reveal the person. Proverbs says, “Lying lips are an abomination to the LORD, But those who deal truthfully are His delight” (Proverbs 12:22).
Truth that lives within
Truthfulness reaches deeper than avoiding obvious lies. Jesus said, “I am the way, the truth, and the life” (John 14:6). A Christlike character therefore refuses deception, exaggeration, manipulation and hidden dishonesty. Truth becomes part of who the person is. It does not need to be defended with spin, because it has nothing to hide.